Yes, you could say the essential message is ‘stay horny’. Arnold Schwarzenegger put it another way in the movie ‘Pumping Iron’ when he revealed his philosophy as being, ‘stay hungry’.
Both messages entail the idea of ‘keeping your edge’, not letting yourself become totally sated, keeping in that going-for-it state that is similar in would-be-lovers, entrepreneurs trying to build their fledgling business, or athletes going for gold medals.
Time and again, you read interviews with successful people and they’ll say that their happiest time was not when they had achieved the great success, but when they were on the journey towards it.
It’s the same with sex. Beforehand your whole body and mind is straining to get into the pants of the girl you’re chasing after. She looks so good. Nothing else really matters but being with her, and getting it on with her. You are keyed up and straining on the leash. She looks so damn gorgeous that you just gotta have her…
Fast forward to 1 minute after sexual ejaculation… and, ‘ugh, she ain’t that great looking!’ It’s almost like the madness leaves you, and you are no longer possesed by the lust. On one hand it’s quite a good state because you have some clarity and self-possession again. But on another level you are just tired and sleepy and not that bothered about anything anymore (except maybe eating or sleeping or getting the hell out of there!).
The idea is that sexual energy keeps you keen and interested in life. It helps spur you on to greater achievements so that you rise up to a greater sexual status in the human pack.
In modern times, we have access to 24/7 porn, we’re much more liberal about sexuality and masturbation, there is more casual recreational sex — all of which makes it a lot easier to get laid or to get off. This can all lead to a slackening off in personal ambition or creativity. You just don’t have to work so hard for ‘it’.
Of course, some guys have attributes and advantages that propel them higher in sexual status than other guys who have achieved a lot materially or creatively. If they are very attractive, charismatic or fulfil some kind of ‘bad boy’ role, they get laid easier than others. They might suffer in other ways by not getting sufficiently motivated to exercise their deeper creativity to manifest prosperity and wealth.
Regarding #3 of my article (get yourself a muse), I acknowledge your reservations. One way to incorporate this concept without getting tied up and tied down with any one particular woman is to make the muse the ‘idea of woman’, or what I call the Universal Woman.
I noticed when reflecting back on the various women that I had dated and mated as a younger man, that there was a kind of common theme running through them all… and I started referring to this as the Goddess or Universal Woman. This is a kind of ‘spiritualization’ … another kind of transmutation, if you like, in which I inwardly chose to believe that I was not in relationship with individual women (and all the individual concerns and hang-ups) but with an archetypal soul mate, the Goddess… or just God, manifest as woman.
Where muses are generally concerned, it is often the case that one can never have that woman (either because she is out of your league, of another class, or a movie star or something like that). That sense of separation enables you to idolize the woman, to make her perfect in your mind, and worship her from afar. This drives creativity in a very similar way that religious devotion drives creativity — as a dedication to the Beloved.
Many men find their ideals dashed when they do get close with their ideal woman and discover that she is an appalling liar, farts in her sleep, or whines non-stop. Others can develop a relationship and allow their own minds to lovingly overlook the faults of their partner, while putting aspects of her appearance, character or behavior on a pedestal to be worshipped in some way. this would be the case with say, someone like Paul McCartney writing a love song about his wife.
|A note: Idealizing any woman while perhaps good for creativity can put unnecessary pressure on a relationship. Being feted and put on a pedestal is certainly nice on occasions, but most women will settle for respect and a good ear. Few people like the pressue of having to live up to images of perfection because we all know how transient and illusory those are in the physical world. Part of being truly creative is learning to love and accept people for what they are, seeing beauty and perfection in imperfection. In this spirit, love can truly blossom. And nothing is more creative than that.|
Having a ‘player’ lifestyle is a wonderful opportunity to use your creativity and funnel your sexuality into using more and more of your mind. Many of the seduction ‘gurus’ demonstrate this very well, developing sophisticated ways to use language to elicit the deepest responses of a woman and give her ‘the time of her life’ with mind-blowing sexual, romantic experiences. They also manage to rise above their sexuality, perhaps because of the transient nature of their relationships with women, to funnel their energies into developing successful businesses (like Eben Pagan, Mystery, Ross Jeffries) and teaching systems that help and benefit others.
I think it’s wonderful that you have released the negative judgements you were holding in your mind (thinking that you had a weakness) and that you have reframed it as your greatest strength. May men would love your life style but they don’t have your skills, courage or abilities to achieve it. You have become a ‘master’ in this area and can turn that mastery to your advantage in others.
All creativity is an act of self-determination, reframing the raw materials of life into what you decide to make of it. You are the creator, the creative force, and sexual energy is the fiery manifestation of that creative force.
The philosophy that I promote falls in-between two self-development movements without fitting into any.
1. Seduction community: They are focused on satisfying their
sexual desires and sacrifice their authenticity.
2. Spiritual community: They develop themselves spiritually to
improve every aspect of life and mostly skip their sexuality.
Some people may wonder… if I am teaching spiritual development
and improving every aspect of life, why am I so focused on
We are actually doing sexual transmutation. We are channeling our sexual energy to make profound changes into our lives. Napoleon Hill talks about Sexual Transmutation in his famous book Think and Grow Rich. Sex is a very powerful force of life. Our sexual energy is grounded to the Earth and our love energy is grounded to the Universe, so in some way we could say that sexuality is half of life. That’s why it is so important. That’s why we want to solve this so badly. That’s why it is so powerful.
Your sexual energy can lead you to leave everything behind and to travel. It can motivate you to bring profound changes into your
life. It can guide you to be with some people instead of other people.
You can also transmute your sexual energy into creativity. It can bring you inspiration to compose some of the finest music or to
paint some of the most beautiful drawings. It can bring you strength to build projects and businesses. It can bring you motivation to follow your dreams to the very end.
Sexuality and sexual energy is a very powerful force that you can use to move your life forward in all areas
The fundamental premise of both Alchemy and Tantra is the transformation of energy. If one considers that the foundation of the spiritual work is to achieve a transformation of one’s own “psyche” or soul, it then becomes evident that this foundation is elaborated within alchemical and tantric works. In reality, tantra and alchemy are the same exact thing.
The most potent transformation of a system occurs by utilizing its most concentrated center of energy, and within the physical organism this center is precisely located at the sex. For this reason, the transmutation of sexual energy is the basis of all physical, psychological and spiritual transformation. This is a tremendous key that lies hidden at the center of every sacred tradition.
The Seal of Solomon or the Star of David is a tantric symbol found throughout the world. The triangle is the fundamental geometrical construct, and it represents the three primary forces of creation: positive, negative, and neutral. These three forces exist within any cosmos, including the human being, itself being the microcosmos. Joining together equal but oppositely polarized triangles produces the transformation of energy that is tantrism itself. Physically this is the union of man and woman, yet it is a process that reverberates throughout all the levels of existence, within all the creative cosmoses.
In general society today sexuality is understood in a very gross and material fashion. Only when it is comprehended that sexuality is anterior to the act between a man and a woman – and far beyond the lusts of sensation that it is normally associated with – can the true meaning of tantrism be known. Tantrism is not “sex” as far as this term is understood by society, yet, at its root there is no way to deny that tantrism is nothing more than a sophisticated term for sexuality. Indeed it is true that the union of man and woman is tantric, yet so is the union of wisdom and compassion, or the skillful union of willpower and imagination which forms the basis of meditation. Therefore, tantrism is the science of harnessing the energy that forms from the crossing of elements.
Types of Sexuality
There are three fundamental classes of sexuality:
1. Suprasexuality: Characterized by the transmutation of sexual energy, the pinnacle of which is the type of functioning that prophets such as Buddha, Jesus, Krishna, Mohammad, etc. possess. Their bodies, minds, and spirits are the outcome of incessant and innumerable sexual transmutations. They perfectly transform each moment of existence, thus they perfectly perceive the true nature of all cosmic phenomena.
2. Normal sexuality: The functioning related with the procreation of the species where no psycho-sexual conflict exists.
3. Infrasexuality: The functioning of any and all forms of fornication or sexual misconduct. Including: masturbation, adultery, and homosexuality. This area is divided by the Kabbalah into the spheres of Lilith and Nehamah.
There are many definitions, for me, sexual transmutation is the act of transforming sexual energy into creativity, increased productivity, happiness, health, confidence and power.
What benefits come from practising sexual transmutation?
You may find yourself needing less sleep. You may experience more energy, or a willingness to get out of your house more often and interact with women.You may take up more creative endeavours, such as playing the guitar, writing poetry, painting, singing, dancing, or creativity towards business and personal objectives.
So what is sexual energy?
When I first started learning about this stuff, I did not understand the concept of “sexual energy”. One of the strongest desires for most people is to have sex.
It’s no surprise to say guys think about sex all the time.
If we are not thinking about sex, we are probably thinking about how to get more money, a better car, or more power so that we can attract and sleep with beautiful women.
How does sexual energy feel?
For me, the energy is often focused on the groin area, and has a pulsing sensation. I consider this the “raw” energy before transmutation. However, after an intense exercise of an hour or more, this feeling goes away and leads to a more refined and powerful feeling of confidence and alertness.
I do not expect everyone to experience this the same way I do. If you are interested in this process, I suggest you actively learn and experiment with this sexual energy on your own. It’s possible that your experience may vary greatly from what I’m writing.
Who will this work for?
Sexual transmutation works for all ages.
Yes, sexual transmutation. will work for women, although the technique is different. Women are more yin (to use the Chinese term). This means they are like water. When women orgasm, they do not generally lose sexual energy.
However, men (yang) are like fire. When we ejaculate, we lose energy and become more lethargic.
If you have a girlfriend or are married, this makes things more difficult. You can still have sex without ejaculating, which I’ll describe later. You can also practice this for just a few days at a time. I suggest you keep reading, and maybe you can also apply this methodology in your life.
Why should I not ejaculate?
When you do not ejaculate, you are building up a dam within yourself. This is an extremely powerful flowing river, possibly the strongest energy we contain as humans.
By not ejaculating for a period of time, you can refocus the flow of this dam to more creative means, such as exercising, art, business, and other fulfilling activities.
However, if you do not actively transmute this energy, the dam is too powerful and it will overtake you and draw you toward psychosis, depression, or other negative channels.
If you are feeling overwhelmed, then sometimes it is a good idea to just “let it go” and ejaculate. For me, I needed to get my body used to not ejaculating as often. This was a habit I had since childhood, and it took me a long time to break.
Would you rather a little 5-second “spurt” of pleasure, or a week of high intensity productivity?
Once you understand this simple point, it’s easy to go longer periods without the need to ejaculate.
Are sexual thoughts bad?
Personally, I do not see any problem with practicing Sexual Transmutation and also allowing your mind to freely engage in sexual thoughts.
Although there is some debate on this topic, my view is that it’s damaging (and potentially harmful) to suppress these natural, sexual thoughts.
You may find that your thoughts become colored with sexuality. Your speech may take on sexual connotations. This is normal. The sexual energy is simply finding new outlets of expression.
However, if these sexual thoughts are too powerful for you and leading you to masturbation and ejaculation, then you need to improve your will power.
When properly harnessed, sexual transmutation is like taking a drug that turbo charges your levels of motivation.
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