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How to get more IOI´s By Rion Williams.

From A news letter by Rion Williams.

Hey Rion,

Thanks for the mailings..I must admit I wasn’t sure about you at first, but after reading what you teach, you take this stuff seriously! In your last newsletter the following really stood out:

If you want women attracted to you, you have to have a natural relationship instead of a social one (unless you are higher in value than her socially AND have natural value).

Are you saying that a higher ranked man in terms of social value should have a social relationhip? What exactly is a ‘social’ relationship?

The reason I ask women give off Indications of interest right away when around me, even what some in the industry call ’10’s’. I’ve always been told girls are very attracted to me, but I’m never sure how to handle it.

I’d be interested to get a perspective from some- one I actually rate in this industry..

Regards, Colin UK

MY REPLY **************

Well, you brought up a couple of points there..About the biggest point that I’m trying to teach and get
across now to guys is to develop relationships with alpha nature.

It is your practical fast track to power, peace and attraction.That’s how you’re able to reach through towomen on the nonverbal levels and trigger a response within her, get interest and to take things from there – having alpha nature/energy yourself that is equal to her in a polar balance.

-Otherwise you’ll continually approach or date and not be able to figure out why you can’t get attraction, interest or results. It comes down to natural value that you offer and the natural response she is going through in relation to you.If you have social relationships and you’re playing the game thinking you have to have an even SHINIER car and a bigger pad in order to get women, that’s not it.S.e.x. sells and advertisers are exploiting it; it works because they’ve built up this ‘forced reality’ where
people can be like the top models for a price.It’s really getting out of hand now.

You’re going to ‘attract’ more of the game and be spending even more. Women are spending all kinds of money to look like social alpha models on fashion, makeup, ‘beauty’, etc. because it’s what was made popular and acceptable in their unique social culture.It gives them power (the wrong kind) and status..they’re
leveraging or ‘borrowing’ character that says nothing about who they really are in terms of personality; you’re
objectifying them instead of seeing the real her.

If your model of sexuality is a social alpha with the pussy on the pedestal and you’re chasing after all these
bunny clones you’re likely playing ‘the game’.{You want the steak more when it’s sizzling in front of
you. You’d consider buying the ginsu knives when you see the demonstration because of relational influence
whereas you wouldn’t likely think of it otherwise.}

You would have behavioral relationships with social alpha desire and attainment. ‘Social’ means economic relation-ships that are rooted in fantasy, not reality and that’s why it’s so inconsistent with women – they too are behaving unnaturally because it’s all a fantasy/game with any success on men’s part with ‘some’ crossover to nature and flirting.

That’s why PUA’s will talk about social value and displaying value to ‘equalize’ their power to her behavioral reality of social alpha ‘prize’ status.

I’ve said before, just ‘be’ the social alpha if you can.It will make things a whole lot easier.

‘Be’ the d.j., bouncer, owner, promoter or know people who are. It makes a difference in those fake and contrived environments because unfortunately those corrupted dynamics DO have an influence on female behavior and they’re judging what they see right in front of them.

If you’re at the top of the game you know how the environment is created and controlled. Bring in the unattainable dancers on the actual ‘pedestal’ and focus the attention
on the loud dance floor, blah blah..

Believing it’s reality itself is dangerous and will keep you distant from real world connections.

I value interdependence and connection.

Of course in any case you still have to have the natural value or a seduction likely isn’t ever going to happen.

The stronger your natural character, the easier everything will become. If you’re focusing on social tactics and still don’t have natural game, you’re wasting a LOT of time to see little payoff. I went through that cycle for several years.

You’re taught to believe it’s real and it looks real thus the cycle continues. It’s time to have a different
understanding of reality and alpha nature which cuts through all of a woman’s social conditioning and personal
development that reaches her on that physiological level within a few seconds of approaching her.

On your other point;

Over a decade ago, I also used to be told that women were attracted to me and yet I never believed it..you know why?

Because those American women rarely ever showed their interest or signs. Part of it was a character/confidence issue but it actually had more to do with the women than
me.

In college even when some women it looked like were ‘maybe’ giving signs (was she? wasn’t she?) at that
point I didn’t know WHAT to do in most cases so I often just didn’t approach.

Their signs were never clear or strong enough. Fortunately those years of questioning and ineffectiveness have been over but even now with many women at any level of character or status, they just WON’T give you ANY sign even when they ARE interested.

It would literally take a Brad Pitt to light up some of our women today. Go to any Starbucks and see Prada’s (Pd un prada en un tia super buena) unable to show interest in the ‘cute guy’ (or any of them) next to them yet they wonder why they can’t meet (good/any) men.

THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Don’t take the blame on yourself if you really ARE the proven high quality/value guy.

I know it can be frustrating. Society and relational influences in their environment
have conditioned them to have social value away from the power of nature.

Even if they’re closed off and generally unapproachable, I’ve found that in many cases I will just approach ANYWAYS and do my usual indifferently interested casual connection.

Now I get IOI’s about everywhere I go. It helps to see different environmental dynamics to get a clearer picture of reality itself as closer to nature because the behavior of women is the greatest wildcard and that’s why everything is so confusing for men.

Now..when they ARE showing IOI’s (sonarr) that is her sign that it’s YOUR turn to make a move. That choice is up to you but she’s already given the go ahead. Often it is subtle but with more experience you’ll know it clear as day, the closer you get to nature and the natural dynamic in it’s purest form.

The reality of living the lifestyle of attracting women and getting their interest when you approach (and all of
the other benefits) are worth it all.Isn’t time to have everything you should be getting instead
of suffering through less than you deserve?

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December 29, 2010 - Posted by | Attraction, Inner Game

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