Understanding Body Language
Did you know that most of the communication
that goes on between two people is non-verbal?
It’s true! Regardless of the fact that most of us don’t even know it, and even more of us can’t pick up on it… we are constantly using our bodies to send signals to each other. These signals show exactly what we are TRULY feeling at the time, and is our body’s way of subconsciously saying the things that we are thinking but would never say out loud. Have you ever wanted to read another person’s mind? Well, reading body language is the only skill known to man that can actually tell you exactly how others are feeling… and in your case, how a particular woman feels about you.
Now that you understand how body language works, the next step is to learn how to read these signals so you can “translate” them, which brings us to the fine art of reading body language…
The art of body language is a vast subject worthy of it’s own website, so I will only be able to scratch the surface in this guide, if you are looking for an in-depth view on body language please refer to the resources at the bottom of this page. However, it is only necessary for a player to have a basic understanding of body language in order to get the results that you are looking for!
Body language consists of two basic types of gestures: open gestures and closed gestures. Open gestures are displayed when the woman is interested in or attracted to the person presented to her, while closed gestures are displayed when she is not.
Becoming a master of body language is the ability to read these signs and use them to your advantage. You must understand that many things can effect a persons body language. For example, if a woman is having a bad day, she may display closed gestures while she is actually attracted to you. Also keep in mind that many shy people automatically put up a barrier between you and them by displaying closed gestures, and our ability to break down these barriers by changing a woman’s closed gestures into open gestures is what separates us players from the rest.
Now you know what body language is, and that everyone has the ability to affect and change someone else’s body language from negative to positive by simply warming up to them (macking). It’s time to learn what these gestures are so you can identify and use them successfully during your encounters with women…
You give me Butterflies
Once you make eye contact with a woman, watch her for a few seconds after she looks away. If she does something that implies that she has become nervous due to you making eye contact, this means that she is interested in or attracted to you. For example, she will: play with her hair, adjust her clothing or jewelry or fiddle with something in her hands.
“Read” her palms
She will expose her wrists and palms of her hands only to people she is interested in. This is a subconscious display of being submissive to you, in which her body is saying “If you want me, you can have me”.
Locked on target
Her shoulder orientation is one of the most obvious signs of attraction, so her upper body will most likely be facing you if she is interested. In essence, she points her shoulders at what she wants.
Leaning foward is also an easy sign to pick up. If her shoulders point at you and she is leaning towards you, then you can put your mind at ease, it’s yours for the taking.
Are you comming in or what?
When her legs or feet are widened this means she is very comfortable with her surroundings and with you. Be careful when observing this, if there are other men in the area then it may not be you that is making her comfortable!
Eyes are not just for decoration.
Her pupils will dialate (get bigger) while looking at a person that she likes, and in turn will get smaller while looking at a person she does not. Keep in mind that lighting can greatly affect this. For instance, if you are outside when the sun is present her pupils may appear to be very small no matter how much she likes you, and vice versa. The best method to use for testing this is when you can view the change in her pupils when looking at you and then at someone else.
This is a no-brainer. If she smiles at you when you make eye contact, get over there and talk to her.
When Did I become Funny
One of the best signs you can hope for is when she will laugh at just about every slick thing you try to say. You may begin to think that you might actually be pretty funny… but your wrong, she just likes you a lot and that’s even better!
As good as gold
If she touches you multiple times while she is talking, like tapping you on the forearm when trying to make a point, then remember to tell her what you like for breakfast so she knows what to cook in the morning.
You must do your duty.
She will make eye contact with you and hold it for a longer than usual period of time, almost uncomfortably long. Before looking away, remember to smile at her. This will let her know that you are interested and are a nice guy. Following this, you may also notice her glance at you occasionally. After the second or third look it should become obvious to you that she wants you to talk to her, so it is your duty as a player to give her what she wants 🙂
If you notice a woman flip her hair and immediately afterward glace your way, she is showing her interest in you and trying to get your attention focused on her by catching your eye.
Its about time to roll on out.
Whenever a woman that you are gaming rolls her eyes it means that she is embarrassed by your presence and is attempting to display to everyone else that she is not interested in you. If this happens to you turn around and walk away, you have little (if any) chance of getting with her.
X does not mark the spot.
Crossing her arms is a tell-tale sign that she is either agitated, nervous, uncomfortable or just does not like you. It’s time to change your strategy, and quick.
The Great Wall of Vagina
Crossing her legs is just as bad as crossing her arms, but can be worse because once her legs are crossed she will most likely cross her arms also. However, if her legs are crossed and pointing towards you (knee points toward you), this means that she is nervous but has interest in you. On the other hand, if her knee points away… you’re in trouble.
The “lean back” is the most dreaded sign in all female body language. If she is leaning away from you and it is very noticeable, my advice is to forget her and move on to your next prospect. Only a very experienced (and lucky) player can warm up to a woman after noticing this type of behavior, but if you think you’ve got the skills then give it a try, you’ve got nothing to lose.
Body language Trick.
Here is a fun trick to use when you want to find out if a woman is checking you out: Look at your watch, count to 3, then look at her. If she looks at her watch also, then she was checking you out. It is a natural human reaction to mimic the actions of someone that you are interested in. By looking at your watch, you will spark her curiosity and she will be wondering what you are waiting for, and with no other source to gather information from she will look at her own watch to try to at least determine the time of your expected event.
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