We cant stop we wont stop.
Persistence can go a long way. When a woman rejects your initial advance it does not generally mean that you can not pick her up, in most cases it simply means that she will not let you have her that easily. To handle situations like this you can use the two minute rule : When you approach a girl you should always spit game to her for a FULL two minutes before walking away and accepting the fact that she is simply not interested… regardless of what she says during those two minutes. You will be surprised by how many women will start warming up to you within two minutes… and by using this technique you will end up with a much higher success rate than you would if you were to just accept defeat right away.
Let me get that for you.
Here is a great kino tip… for those that don’t know, simply put kino means the art of flirting by touch, for more in-depth information on kino do a search on it at this site and you’ll find a few good articles. On with the tip : Whenever you are with a girl and her hair is falling in her face, gently use your index finger to “pull” the hair back and place it behind her ear. When you do this rub your finger down behind her ear all the way down to her ear lobe. Girls respond very well to this and it seems to have a comforting/soothing effect on them… they love it. You can do this as often as you like and once a particular girl becomes accustomed to you doing it to them they will even look forward to you doing it. As an added bonus you can say something nice to them or give them a good compliment while you do it, which will magnify the effect.
When you are approaching a group of girls and you’ve already picked out the one that you want, the only thing that should be running through your mind is “I need to get her ALONE!”. Yes, that it your first and foremost goal… to separate her from her friends. When I say alone I do not mean back at your place doing the nasty, save that for later. I mean you need to get her off to the side with you, away from her friends so that you can have a one on one conversation without anyone else around to ruin your game. Doing this also allows her to open up more and flirt with you the way that she really wants to, around her friend she will be more reserved because of the fear of them thinking that she is being slutty. Now before you even begin to isolate the girl, you first need to know that she will allow you to break her off from her group… and you do this by talking to the entire group while watching for signs of attraction from each of them. If you are not getting signals from your target girl that shows she is interested, but are getting them from one or two other girls in the group… you will either need to switch your target or forget about the approach. This is because girls tend to be very faithful to their friends when they are together, even though they are not very faithful to them when they aren’t around. So if your initial target notices that one of her friends is feeling you right away, she may back down. This can not be said for all girls however, sometimes the group will go into competition mode in which they all compete for your attention… which is good. This is exactly why you first need to look for signs of attraction by talking to the entire group at first, because these type of situations can go down many different ways… and you have to be able to adapt on the spot if you want to successfully get one of them away from their friends. Once you know exactly which girl you are going to isolate, you can begin to focus your attention on her. At first begin to make eye contact with her while you are still asking questions to the entire group, then begin to ask questions directly to her… and when you feel the time is right, make the move. Say something to your target like “I want to show you something”, after she says ok ask the other girls in the group “Can I borrow your friend for a second… I promise I’ll bring her back”. They will agree because if they do not the girl that you are trying to separate will feel as if she is being controlled by her friends which will embarrass her in front of you… in which case she will go with you anyway in an attempt to show you that her friends can not boss her around, so either way it works in your favor. Once you’ve got her off to the side spit game to her like a champ and get the digits, this is the easy part.
Your Ok but your friend is better.
If you notice a girl that you like but she is with one of her friends, try this approach. My favorite way to do this is to talk to the “uglier” friend first in order to make the hot one jealous… because if you talk to the hot one directly the other might like you too and get jealous… then she will do just about anything to ruin your chances with her friend – not good! Go up to the ugly one and say something like “I really like your (insert something : pants, shirt, hair… anything) then after she says thanks quickly move on to the hot one and give her a compliment also… then keep talking to BOTH of them for a while, but gradually focusing more on the hot one, until the point comes when you are only talking to her… then end the conversation by getting her number and setting up a date.
On the rebound.
Whenever a girl that you are talking to brings up the subject of her ex-boyfriend, you’ve got to immediately change the subject every time she does… the last thing you want is for her to think you are a “shoulder to cry on”. If you learn that she had just recently gotten out of a long-term relationship it’s kind of a sticky situation… you can most likely get her to want you in terms of sex/messing around… but after a relationship that lasted that long its too soon to pressure her into a relationship, it could possibly scare her off. The best thing might be to first get her in a playful mood or at least happy (and most importantly not thinking about her ex and realizing how much fun she is having without him) then explain to her that you want her to be your girl but you don’t want to rush anything… tell her that you’ll move at her pace and if she wants you to back off a little and slow down all she has to do is say so and you will… then tell her that you don’t like playing games and if she wants to be your girl she going to have to tell you.
It was an accident I swear.
Here is a good one I used a few times back in school… but it’ll require some balls on your part. What you do is bump into her in the hallway and make sure you knock her books down (if she doesn’t normally carry them then carry yours and when you bump her drop them) then when you both bend down to pick them up say something like “Wow, I’ve seen you in the hall a few times and thought you were kind of cute, but from up close your gorgeous” then tell her you want to chill with her after school and say “is there a number I can reach you at?” Make sure you ask for her number like that because it works 100 times better than “can i have your number”, and you don’t have to use that same compliment, you can use anything that you really like about her… if she is the type of girl that likes to dress impressive or look like she cares a lot about what clothes she wears (most are) then that might be the way to go… girls like that dress nice because they are hoping someone will notice and say something… you’ll make her day if you tell her that her shirt/jeans look cool and she will like you a lot more because you noticed.
You are the man.
Act like your the king of the world. Be rude, but not enough to offend. Make yourself appear dominant in everything that you do… even if your not good at it! Tom Cruise can’t really kick anyone’s ass, but he sure looks like he can in his flicks, right? It’s all about the illusion, people would rather see something that looks good than something that works better, master the illusion and you’ll master the girls. Let them think you’ve got money even if you don’t. Make them think you get all of the girls even if you’ve never been laid before. This is very easy to do, be creative… you can take this as far as you want to go with it!
Just do it…do it….do it.
Never ask a girl if you can kiss her! Just do it. This is one of those situations where females like to see a man that can take control and do what he wants, so show her that you’ve got the balls and just do it. If you ask her for permission in advance she’ll think that your scared to be a man, and even if she still lets you kiss her… she’ll think less of you afterward.
Lets go back to school.
Tease those girls, they like it! Remember back in 2nd grade when girls had “cooties” and you’d tease them, fight with them, and pick on them? Sure you do! It’s time to go back to 2nd grade people, because women still respond positively to this. Teasing them lets them know that you are playful and could care less what they (or anyone) think about you. Women love care-free men that do what they want… and I know that you want to pick on them sometimes. Why? Because it’s fun… and girls just wanna have fun, and they want a guy that they know they can have fun with. BE THAT GUY and you’ll get more girls.
Just touch her already you will probably like it
KINO KINO KINO! Touch those girls man! Touching is the most important part of flirting. Want to let a girl know that you like her? Touch her! Want to make a girl like you more? Touch her! Want to let a girl know that your not scared to touch her? Ok, you get my drift. Simply touch her hand or wrist, maybe even her arm and you will do all of the above. This is easy to do, it just takes some balls… so go out and a limb and touch hers 🙂
And they say we think about it all day long.
Woman constantly talk abound finding their soul mate, knight in shining around, price charming, etc. DON’T fall for this! This may be true that they all want these things deep down… but on the surface they are just as horny as we are! With that in mind, save the romantic relationship-based stuff for afterwards, the REAL way to a woman’s heart is through her pants. Get her turned on and show her who’s “the man” in bed, then she will fall in love with you
Surprise but it aint your birthday.
This is one of my favorite tricks to use in order to get that “first kiss” without all of the anticipation and awkwardness. Simply do the following, but make sure she has warmed up to you first, or she may get pissed: Ask her if she likes surprises, if she says yes… kiss her. If she says no, kiss her anyway, and then say “My bad, I forgot you didn’t like surprises”. This seems to work extremely well for me, and it’s an easy, yet creative method to use..
This one is just dirty.
Tease her with attention. While you are macking on a particular girl, go away after you’ve talked for a while and begin talking to someone else. Try to make it a male friend you go talk to, or she will think your a player… (let’s make that OUR secret, ok?). This will drive her crazy, and if you’ve made a decent impression on her, she won’t be able to think of anything except you… and when your going to come back. Some of the bolder females out there may even come and butt into your new conversation. However, if she does not, go back after a short period of time and you will find her most happy that you did.
Tickle Tickle tickle
Once you think she feels comfortable around you, and if it would be appropriate given the current situation, ask her if she is ticklish. If she answers yes or maybe, proceed with the tickling. If she answers no, say “I think your lying” and proceed with the tickling. From my observations, I would say that eight out of ten girls are ticklish. Plus, if she really likes you and is truly not ticklish, she will fake it anyway. Tickling is a very good trick to use because it involves touching, and you should touch her whenever possible. I can’t really explain it, but for some reason women respond very well to the touch, as long as it’s delivered in a respectful manner (no ass or boob grabbing people).
The seductive smile.
Upon making eye contact with a woman that you are interested in, always smile. I’m not talking about one of those huge “say cheese” smiles, rather a smirk (maybe a little bit more than a smirk) that says “I’m happy you’ve looked at me”. Once smiling, hold the gaze for 1-2 seconds, then look away. After looking away, try to get her to make eye contact with you again, if this happens go over and talk to her, because her second look was your invitation.
Do this but watch out for a cat fight.
While you are talking to a group of girls, always remember to flirt with ALL of them, even the ones that you don’t find attractive. This will put them into “competitive mode”, in which all of the women will begin to try to win your affection because of your display of interest in each of them. Once this is accomplished you will be able to have your pick out of any of them, because the woman you choose will feel like she is the “winner”. Every girl wishes to feel like she is the best looking in her group, and if you help her achieve this goal, you will become her player in shining armor 🙂
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