The Aging Player

The Player: The Aging Player

Aging is an unfortunate fact of life, but if you’re in the correct fame of mind, it shouldn’t be detrimental to your romantic endeavors. In fact, if you play your cards right, you can even increase your level of “pleasurable productivity” by taking advantage of the inherent positives associated with aging. It’s not just about the clichéd “older is wiser,” it’s more about understanding both the limitations and the new possibilities. Adjustments must be made, but once this is done the world of dating and sex suddenly becomes more dynamic and diverse. The player

always preaches the importance of experience, which is always vastly more important than god-given physical gifts, and now that you’ve completed the roaring 20s it’s time to accept certain facts and acknowledging that things can and will get better — provided you adhere to the following tips.

Stay in shape

Perhaps the most difficult aspect of getting older is the slower metabolism that comes with age. There was a time when you could ingest an entire pizza with every last topping and not gain an ounce — but you were 18, and your metabolism often hit Mach 5. Nowadays, it sort of ambles along at a nice leisurely pace, and it isn’t equipped to deal with large amounts of food, nor can it easily handle thewrong types of food. Once past 30, you absolutely need to keep a close eye on your health, and remember: If you slip and put on weight, it becomes infinitely more challenging to reclaim your former shape. If you address it immediately, you can maintain your youthful, athletic, appealing body; it just takes a bit more work. Those slim, trim 20-somethings are young. However, you can still compete with the best of ‘em. If you’re vigilant in regards to your health, you will continue to appeal to those taut, hot bombshells

you still crave.

Expand your target group

One of the benefits of passing 30 is the fact that, all of a sudden, you can appeal to just about any woman between the ages of 20 and 40. Really, it’s the perfect median age for dating. When in your early 20s, it isn’t advisable to chase those MILFs in their late 30s because the cultural gap is simply too wide. The same can be said of the 40-year-old men who optimistically pursue the chicks in their early 20s, who usually find middle-aged guys creepy. Between the ages of 27 and 34, you can expand your range of targets to include just about any attractive and interesting women

over the age of 18. This has been referred to as the “sweet spot” and is exactly what I speak of here; it’s merely a matter ofrecognizing it as a bonus. Being able to date everyone from college hotties to retirees can be a heady experience.

Act your age

As badly as you may want to be that same guy who cruised the ladies

a decade ago, you’re not that same guy. If you’re in your early 20s, it makes perfect sense to go crazy, experiment, take risks, and build an exciting, thrilling reputation. However, now that you’ve passed 30, it’s time to put aside any thoughts of pretending or masquerading, and just push forward into acceptance. The music at the clubs really is too loud, isn’t it? Even if a woman is drop-dead gorgeous, you can no longer withstand brainless banter for extended periods of time. Your idea of a good time might just include a home-cooked dinner and a movie you’ve seen a hundred times before. All this being the case, you needn’t believe that any of this will instantly make you unattractive or uninteresting; in fact, many women will say there isn’t anything sexier than a man who is completely secure. Being yourself is always preferable to an act.

Promote your success (and stability)

In addition to your solidified self-esteem and security, you have also found your place in life. You’ve made strides in the professional world (of which you have every right to be proud of), and you have both money in the bank and multiple prospects on the horizon. If you’ve already found what you love to do; if you’ve settled on your life’s calling and you plan to attack it with vigor, any woman can and will appreciate that. Why do many females go after older

men? For the two reasons outlined here: maturity and stability, on both the personal and financial level. Therefore, it makes perfect sense to promote this advantage; to put your best foot forward and show a woman what you have to offer. You have so muchmore to offer in comparison to that college graduate who is seeing the big, scary world for the very first time. Even if he has a direction — and most don’t at that time — he hasn’t done anything yet. You have — and you’re gonna show her.

age is but a number

Successful players

who continue to operate well past the age of 30 often find their options have actuallyexpanded. Granted, one may have to alter his approach, but, for the most part, the aging Player is a man who is stable, confident, capable, and as a direct result of his experience, more potent than ever..

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